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Chan Jian Da
15 years old
15th December 1993
jian-da@hotmail.com


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Saturday, November 28, 2009
画龙画虎难画骨,知人知面不知心的含义

To " Mikaw ":

画龙画虎难画骨,知人人面不知心。有些人前面做一手背后做一手,表面上看来顶好的,其实一直在背后不知怎么害你,说你的坏话,人莫人样。我就遇见一个这样的人在我身边,在我和好朋友之间相互调拨。让我们产生误会,当我和朋友开诚布公谈的时候,我们才发现他一直在我们身边彼此受相互的说坏话。想想真样的人真让人气愤。所以一定要小心身边这样的人,别让这样的人靠近你。要看清一个人不能只看他的外表,只听他的一面之词。一定要深入的了解一个人的心。" i read this somewhere, somehow. and i thought it was really nice, and true.

i think all humans are judgemental. we always think that this particular person is hypocritical because this thing happened. and we think that this person is bad-tempered because that thing happened. so at the end of the day, we become so biased in our views, that we forgot to take a closer look at them. they are not that bad after all. we get so carried away with judging people, yet we always forgot to judge ourselves. we tell people how hypocritical this particular person is, but sometimes, i think we are the ones who are being hypocritical. okay, what kind of reasoning is this, you might ask. my answer is simply, i have no idea. this thing just pops into my mind, and it really makes alot of sense. just take 3 minutes off your busy life, be it watching videos on youtube. just take that 3 minutes of your life and think about it: have you ever been caught in this situation where you feel that someone is talking about something bad about you, yet you are unable to do something? have you ever been caught in this situation when you hears your friend talk about what someone did to her/him or she starts talking about what this person did and why she hates her and everything? ask yourself, have you been biased in your views all these while? have you judged someone because of a certain event that happened or because someone told you something about her/him? have you?

i know this sounded like any other expository introduction and etc, but at end of the day, i hope you understand something, that the world dont just revolves around you and you alone. there are people around. everyone is imperfect, including yourself. it's just the way people hides their imperfects that makes them look perfect. but everyone knows, there's always a flaw in every single art piece.

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